My GF Is Bisexual–She Wants a Threesome And I Don’t…Please Help!!?
My GF (future wife) and I have been together for 5 years. Our love life is perfect and we both love each other very much. I have no complaints about our sex life whatsoever. She is beautiful, sexy, and wonderful and sometimes I wonder why she chose me. We are both very open and honest with each other sexually and otherwise.
She told me when we first got together that she was BI and had been with women before. I was perfectly fine with that….I thought it was hotter than hell and I was alright with it because it is “every man’s fantasy.”
My problem is this, I wouldn’t mind it if she was with another woman but, she wants it to be as part of a threesome. I keep telling her that I don’t want any part of a threesome but, it is fine if she wants to be with another girl on her own or have me watch.
Is there something wrong with that? I believe that most threesome experiences end up going bad and I don’t want to lose her over that. Am I right to think this way?
Also, I don’t want this to sound bad but, how do I help her find a GF? She is very into women and I don’t want her to feel like she is missing out on something. (being with another girl NOT the threesome.) But, none of her friends is BI or a lesbian and she isn’t the type to go and pick a girl up at a bar or out shopping.
THANKS for responding!!
To respond to one of the answers–This isn’t something new. This has been something that we have talaked about for a LONG time. Also, we are going to get married next year in August because she is the love of my life!!