How do I know if I should come out of the closet?

Posted by: laidtips  :  Category: Uncategorized

I am a 34 year old male and in love with a beautiful woman and want to spend my life with her, but I have this thing where I am attracted to both woman and men. Traditionally I have always only been into woman. I find I am more sexually attracted to men, right now in my life anyhow. I feel in my heart that I truly do love this girl but there is also a lot of pain and suffering going on in my heart which seems to be linked to an instinctual desire to go off and to be free, single and to experiment with men to really find myself. To know for sure I am sexually attracted to men as well as woman making me bisexual, but need to know if I am really meant to be with a man. I respect my instincts but I am resisting them because I don’t want to loose this lovely girl..she is the most magnificent woman I have ever known! Our solution has been to have threesomes but it has not got rid of my chest pains. Sometimes I almost say to myself, and to her, I am gay and almost tell her that we shoul