I’m bisexual, but I’m more attracted to women… so should I just identify as a lesbian?

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Well I like women more than men, and i see myself settling down with a woman, not a man. And it seems that my ‘bi’ label scares a lot of potential girlfriends away. So since I like women more and I’m pretty sure I will end up with a woman should I just ignore the feelings I have for men and just date women and identify as a lesbian?

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11 Responses to “I’m bisexual, but I’m more attracted to women… so should I just identify as a lesbian?”

  1. Mrs. Nesbit Says:

    I would if I were you.

  2. Amore mio Says:

    Yeah, be honest with yourself and others

  3. ♡ⓚⓐⓣⓔ♡ Says:

    Well just ask yourself if you ever planning on dating a guy sometime, if not, say your lesbian. But if you want to keep that option open, say your bi.

  4. Yahoo: GRUNT Says:

    Why do you need conform to label?

  5. Emz Says:

    Yeah, you should cos that’s who you are and you should proud of it.

  6. JIMK Says:

    you are still bi . dont let the vibes of disapproval push you around .

  7. Kathryn W Says:

    Personally I would be fine if there were no more men

    But that does not mean you have to be that way. If you are really Bi then that is who you are.

    You don’t say how old you are so I’m not sure you should make up your mind as to who you are. I was certain early that I was a lesbian, but I am not going to tell you to “become a lesbian” when you are really Bi

  8. Mrs. Jones ☮ Says:

    Love is love, sweetie.
    It doesn’t need labels.
    I always do this stuff. lol
    I go back and forth alot.
    Most of the time, I think I’m a lesbian
    and then some guy comes along that I really
    like and all of a sudden i’m “bi”.
    figuritivly speaking, I’m like 90% lesbian. lol
    But for some reason, a tiny part of me can fall for a man.
    Though, I don’t prefer men.
    I just don’t label myself, anymore.
    You don’t need to ignore your feelings,
    but you also don’t need to tell your potential
    girlfriends if you’re bi.
    If they know you like them, then obviously
    you like women, so they shouldn’t need to ask.

  9. fanime7173 Says:

    yes if that what you want XD>_<

  10. Connie Says:

    If you’re sure that you want to be with a woman, then I think you should change the label over to lesbian if you’re really worried about scaring people away. You can always change back. Though I don’t see why you’d want to be with a person who loses interest in you when you say you’re bi.

  11. ♀Gamer Girl♀ Says:

    I understand where you’re coming from. I think it would be better to say you’re a lesbian, but its entirely up to you. Whomever you’re happy with, and feel comfortable with, is all that matters.

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